
Protected: Sex Addiction.
Black TieIn the past week I have had three men ask me if I think I might be addicted to sex. It has given me reason to ponder this a little more deeply. The short answer is no. I am not a sex addict. Not, at all. If I were not being paid to…

Protected: Pornography.
Black TieIt might seem rather odd at first that I am not keen on pornography. My reasons may not be what you imagine. For me, it is all about real sex - not performance acting so it galls me when clients come knocking imagining they will enter a…

Protected: Our Secret Selves.
Black TieWhat are you thinking about at the moment of orgasm? This question was recently posed to me by an Auckland Dom who was trying to get inside my head. And yes, it got me thinking. What are my triggers? This, of course, started me down a road…

Protected: What To Expect.
Black TieI try my best not to have any expectations when he arrives at my door. I try to remember this sexual experience is not actually about me, it is about him. Sometimes I blur the lines I'll admit.
Arrive on time.
This is always a positive…
