Protected: Guilt.

I have been thinking about guilt.  I mean, what's that really about? Why can't we have what we want when we want it? It is a question I ask myself more often these days. Surely.  If we are getting everything we need from one person then…

Protected: Whore!

Whore! I love that word. It is the perfect description for what I am. I am a whore. Now, many a man refuses to use that word with me thinking it derogatory. To me, it isn’t. It is a wonderful word - much like the word cunt. I own it. A…

Protected: Oral Sex.

When it comes to giving great oral sex there are definite moves one can easily incorporate to ensure it is more enjoyable. First.  Let's stop with the whole 69 bullshit! I want to give or I want to receive - I can't do both at the same time. Second. …

Protected: Sex Addiction.

In the past week I have had three men ask me if I think I might be addicted to sex.  It has given me reason to ponder this a little more deeply.  The short answer is no.  I am not a sex addict.  Not, at all.  If I were not being paid to…

Protected: Pornography.

It might seem rather odd at first that I am not keen on pornography.  My reasons may not be what you imagine.  For me, it is all about real sex - not performance acting so it galls me when clients come knocking imagining they will enter a…

Protected: Our Secret Selves.

What are you thinking about at the moment of orgasm? This question was recently posed to me by an Auckland Dom who was trying to get inside my head.  And yes, it got me thinking.  What are my triggers? This, of course, started me down a road…

Protected: What To Expect.

I try my best not to have any expectations when he arrives at my door.  I try to remember this sexual experience is not actually about me, it is about him.  Sometimes I blur the lines I'll admit. Arrive on time.  This is always a positive…