Menopause.

I have such a deep understanding of men – I have spent most of my life studying them so I guess that makes sense.

My clientele is made up of 70% married men – most of these men absolutely love their wives and would far prefer to be fucking them than me.  I get it.  Many have spent years trying to get back what once was only to find they are left out in the cold … so to speak.

I would love to sit down with these wives.  I would love to share the secrets any good courtesan learns.  I wish women could see the pain they are causing their men by denying them intimacy.  And intimacy is what we are really talking about here.

Sure, men will come and fuck me and I will share my body and mind as much as I can but it is the intimacy being withheld by their lover that they really want.  I am just a stand in.  I want all men to feel like men.  I want to make every man feel 10 feet tall.  You are loved.  You are wanted.

Women simply do not understand the power they wield within the relationship.  I wish I could have meetings with women who deny their men.  And then we need to really talk about menopause.  Yikes.

I went through surgical menopause when I was young.  I had cancer.  Everything was removed.  This meant I went into menopause at a young age but I was put on HRT (Hormone Replacement Therapy) so never went through the awful side effects of losing precious hormones.  These hormones are so important to a woman’s sexual health.  I cannot stress that enough.

Do some research.  You will discover that fuck all research has gone into women’s sexual health because it was never deemed important.  Women were there to have children and once that job was done then … go fuck yourself.  Honestly.  It is dismal.

I will tell you something that might blow your mind.  Women are far more sexual than men.  Yes.  It’s true.  We are not encouraged to be though, we are almost made to feel bad for being such divine sexual creatures and then it’s all over when menopause smashes through the door.  It needn’t be.

Men.  Get informed.  Women can start the process in their late 30’s with perimenopause so both of you need to be on the same page.  Together.  HRT may just be the answer.